ARTICLES
Divorces
Frequently, people marry because they love each other and believe that they can build up a pleasant life together. They see similarities and feel comfortable with this. As this loving process turns into its maturity phase, people choose to not divorce because of what has been built with regard to children, money and other assets. The second argument concerns the loss of face and the embarrassment of not being prestigious anymore. Irritations are no longer being tolerated, which ensures further polarisation between the partners.
Why do so many people separate? I advised more than 60.000 clients on an one - to - one basis and have an answer to this question.
Communication and sexual satisfaction are the most fundamental drives of every love relationship. As long as these aspects are not being optimal, you or your partner always will (un)consciously look out to an other partner. Cheating is the main reason for separations and divorcements. Feeling guilty towards the other one is often felt as a burden, where after one proceeds to a separation. If you can not be faithful to the one you have promised your love and loyalty, it is really yourself you are fooling.
People are vulnerable to attention of someone else, regardless of this happens in a positive or negative way. If the attention between partners tends to weaken in the long run, and that is almost inevitable in this stressed society, people automatically stand open for the feelings of others. People have established their hope on a simple eye contact or smile of a potential partner. The mystery is being admired. However, when this mystery is revealed, it is no longer exciting so that one needs to search for the revealing of other mysteries. Therefore, our own curiosity is responsible for our own destruction. So, first think about your choices and decisions before doing anything stupid.
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